Symptons of True Love… :)
Something that I find interesting so copy and paste to share with you guys…
If you find yrself with the following symptons, you are in true love… believe it if you wan… lolz…
1. You get joy from making your love happy.
2. You have no interest in others who would normally attract you.
3. When you long to be in your love’s arms every second of the day.
4. It actually feels like your feelings are physically coming from your heart.
5. When you think of your love and smile no matter how hard your day has been.
6. You see your love with all their imperfections, yet know they are perfect for you.
However, I did ask my sis who was married… she say the above is true when u r in honey moon… lolz… probably she’s rite… anyway it always takes 2 hands to clap to have a stable loving relationship… Both muz actively thinks of ways to help and please each other without the tht of wat they r getting for in return. In my personal opinion, love is to give and shld be unconditional. If either side of the love give too much, the one who give muz work extra hard to be please and not offend the taker. The likelyhood of this relationship surviving is slim cos to much give sometime is demoralising and dishearten. So frens out there(you noe who u are), try to work things out with your partner when you find yrself giving too much and is unable to breath anymore. Dun wait till there is no way you are able to resolve it and regrat it. Unless you no longer able to tolerate it then let it go… no pt in holding on to something that is stagnent and unable to be salvage cos the one who suffer and get hurt the most is you yrself… well watever it is, decision is still pt down to individual whether you still luv the other party, whether you are willing to give how much, whether you accept it anot…
October 26th, 2005 at 10:10 am
Hello Kelly!Its a real interesting article you have written. Just some extra comments. Firstly, Love is not unconditional. When you give ( an action ), you will want to get ( a reaction ). Thats the very 1st point of the article
1. You get joy (reaction ) from making (action )your love happy. Where does the reaction comes from, it could be in a form of your love smile, a kiss, anything that indicates they appreciate what you are doing. The only problem is when you are the only one giving and getting. Remember point 1 is an indication of symptoms of true love… if u are the one who always does the giving and thus getting your love to be happy… is this true love? What happen when you are the one who always take actions to make your love happy and your love never / rarely do it… Nobody should or just stand there say.. o its ok i dun mind, love should be unconditional and i dun mind the giving, as long as he/she is happy.. I will be happy… Felt like a fairy tale or TV drama where the female lead run off with a new guy and the male lead just say ” As long as she’s happy, I am happy” Will he really be happy? Anyway there can be many more things which cannot be just surface level. Ok in summary, why people find a bf/gf, a partner? To give love and to feel loved. Therefore love is not really unconditional, else it is not love liao. I will prefer to used naturally then unconditionally for a more higher level of love hehe
November 5th, 2005 at 12:52 am
wow… qing shen le rick… not bad… ya wat u say is true to a certain extent and oso subjective to individual… tks for yr comments…