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Something that I find interesting so copy and paste to share with you guys…

If you find yrself with the following symptons, you are in true love… believe it if you wan… lolz…

1. You get joy from making your love happy.
2. You have no interest in others who would normally attract you.
3. When you long to be in your love’s arms every second of the day.
4. It actually feels like your feelings are physically coming from your heart.
5. When you think of your love and smile no matter how hard your day has been.
6. You see your love with all their imperfections, yet know they are perfect for you.

However, I did ask my sis who was married… she say the above is true when u r in honey moon… lolz… probably she’s rite… anyway it always takes 2 hands to clap to have a stable loving relationship… Both muz actively thinks of ways to help and please each other without the tht of wat they r getting for in return. In my personal opinion, love is to give and shld be unconditional. If either side of the love give too much, the one who give muz work extra hard to be please and not offend the taker. The likelyhood of this relationship surviving is slim cos to much give sometime is demoralising and dishearten. So frens out there(you noe who u are), try to work things out with your partner when you find yrself giving too much and is unable to breath anymore. Dun wait till there is no way you are able to resolve it and regrat it. Unless you no longer able to tolerate it then let it go… no pt in holding on to something that is stagnent and unable to be salvage cos the one who suffer and get hurt the most is you yrself… well watever it is, decision is still pt down to individual whether you still luv the other party, whether you are willing to give how much, whether you accept it anot…

It’s been a while since i updated my blog… for ppl who always reads my blog shld noe by now that I only write my blog when something has happened or when i’m vex or down. For this time round, I’m feeling real down. I question myself wif a big WHY and there’s always no ans to it. seriously whats wrong with me?  Use to have a couple of frens who I can confide with, however days hv change everyone of us had drifted apart. and if otherwise,  ppl would find you a burden adding onto their trouble. Nowaday, Ppl become selfish too and have the concept of "ji gey gu ji gey" type of moto… perhaps it is due to the rapid changing environment that causes such a drastic change in human nature…. or perhaps in reality human is nv kind or unselfish… for this i really cant accept it… I find myself trying hard to change to adapt to this kind of environment… however I failed… I always live behind the reality that when you treat others kind and friendly, you shld get back the kind of attitude you deserve… but… the more i felt this way, the more disappointment i get out of it when things turn otherwise… and also dun expect that you are a lady, a gentlement shld always give in to you or coax you cos this had nv been true in the reality… there is always a give and take in any kind of relationship… be it BGR or normal friendship. Therefore, dun expect too much out of something cos when you didn’t get wat you expected, you will live in more disappointment and despair than wat you thought.

okie jus my personal opinion… i’ll stop here cos I think my mind are block with many thoughts that I cant write it in words here… hope tomolo will be a brighter day for me… nitez…